We live in hurried times when it takes longer than it used to get anywhere and the clock is always on us. There is not too much we can do to change this, but perhaps we can reach out to others to make their days - and ours - a little nicer.
When we give away a smile, we generally get one back. That’s a simple concept, isn’t it? Many of us, especially younger people, are very self-conscience. In other words, we are so busy thinking about what we should say next and how we look that we perhaps are not really noticing those around us.
When your organization or church is having a special event, dinner (potluck), or a festive celebration like Mardi Gras or New Year’s Eve, invite someone to attend! You might be surprised to know how many people would actually enjoy attending your church, or participating in your hobby. Perhaps you have an extra ticket for a concert. Ask someone if they would like to join you!
If you hear someone is not well, drop them a card to let them know you are thinking about them. You could stop by with a bouquet from your garden.
The very best way to make a friend is to be a friend. When we reach out to others, soon people will be responding back and we will have a wonderful circle of friends.
If you find it really hard to speak to people you encounter, try walking your dog around the block or to the park. Most dogs are pretty good at meeting people!
At school or work, if you see someone sitting alone eating their lunch, try asking if you can join them.
The current heavy use of ipods and cell phones tend to isolate us and keep us from meeting people. Perhaps putting those devices away in the pocket for a while would lead to new friendships.
When participating in sports or hobbies walk over to the other person and ask them how they are doing. They might be glad to tell you how they are doing or show you their project!
People are not really meant to be alone. A circle of friends is a good start to a happy, healthy, balanced life!
10 years ago
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